Hi! so i figured id' share. husband and I have not been getting along at all lately to say the least. He's here minimal which i guess is good during those times, yet also leaves one feeling bigtime disconnected. So, we've been talking alot, debating, discussing, trying to figure out how it all unglued again and with-o a therapist. Argh!! yes that can be one of those things you want to pull your hair out while doing. we made sure difficult child was down and him and i sit in a 2X4 bathroom in our room, only safe place we can have a conversation with-o kids. Picture me and a 230 lb. guy sitting on a flr. in a bathroom. things def got hectic, bags were packed, not mine! LOL. long story short we seem to have reached some type of truce, he apologized, I didn't i just said this is life life gets crazy and i have to know you have my back at all times and arent' giong to turn on me this way. we spent sometime last night watching our favorite show together, it helped alot. and tonight we're going to movies when he gets home. it's hard though, last night went to bed at 2:30, now tonight probably will be same at least. he doesnt' get in till 11:30 12 most nights. peace has been reached for now. although it was late was still nice to get a piece back of that with him. we havent' always had the easiest time, we're total opposites so it does take work to not argue due to our diff views on just about everything there is. Yet we had a great wedding a great time away on our honeymoon, and it was just really sad to return to a worse situation with-difficult child than what we had left and than all this. anyway just figured id share.