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My name is Erin and I am stepmom to a 10 year old girl diagnosed with ADHD. Im pretty sure she suffers from ODD, but we don't have an official diagnosis yet.
Her behaviour is completely out of control. She came back from her mom's house yesterday and was told to pick up her room. 2 hours later and after wrestling with her sister, playing with toys and multiple requests to make beds were ignored until I stood in the doorway and watched them make them. That then ignited Vanessa's mouth. Because she thinks she is the boss of everything. She advised me I need to leave this house, etc. Her father told her to apologize to me. Which she can't do because she does not care about anyone but herself. She treats her younger sister like poo. Heaven forbid you do anything to annoy her or the verbal assualt will begin.
From there it went downhill with Vanessa throwing a kitchen chair to the floor, and being told to sit on the stairs because she was not allowed to watch tv or draw etc. Well she started screaming at hitting the wall. So her dad told her to sit on the porch because we dont want holes in the wall. From there she escalated to throwing rocks at the window, acting like an animal and eating acorns at the dinner table. Proclaiming "Hmmm yummy acorns."
She was drawing in bed even though her dad told her to go to bed ( She snuck art supplies into bed).
She often will hoard candy/Fiber 1 bars into her room or to school with her. She prefers to graze on carbs all day rather than eat a meal.
She bosses her sister around, trys to make her like everything she likes. She has been this way since I met her (when she was 7 1/2). She is very manipulative.
I am pretty on top of her behaviour and call it out, and she doesn't like that.
She is currently on Concerta, 36 mg which does absolutely nothing. She is doing poorly in school, can't focus, forgets her homework, etc.
Tonight, when she got home from school we were explaining if she does her work and take her shower she could go on the computer (which she adores), well she had decided she needed her backpack back. Her shrink, mom and dad have decided she can not have a backpack because she hoards and sneaks things to school, which will distract her from focusing on her schoolwork So that led to another meltdown.
She is starting Adderall XR 10mg tomorrow.
Could she have a mild form of autism? is this ODD? She has no idea how to communicate her thoughts, feelings etc? The only thing she can talk about is cats (she likes to act like one), Pokeman, Sonic, etc.
This is not normal behaviour and she is giving me anxiety. I myself suffer from ADD and never behaved like this. Your thoughts are much appreciated. Thanks.
Erin & Rafael
Her behaviour is completely out of control. She came back from her mom's house yesterday and was told to pick up her room. 2 hours later and after wrestling with her sister, playing with toys and multiple requests to make beds were ignored until I stood in the doorway and watched them make them. That then ignited Vanessa's mouth. Because she thinks she is the boss of everything. She advised me I need to leave this house, etc. Her father told her to apologize to me. Which she can't do because she does not care about anyone but herself. She treats her younger sister like poo. Heaven forbid you do anything to annoy her or the verbal assualt will begin.
From there it went downhill with Vanessa throwing a kitchen chair to the floor, and being told to sit on the stairs because she was not allowed to watch tv or draw etc. Well she started screaming at hitting the wall. So her dad told her to sit on the porch because we dont want holes in the wall. From there she escalated to throwing rocks at the window, acting like an animal and eating acorns at the dinner table. Proclaiming "Hmmm yummy acorns."
She was drawing in bed even though her dad told her to go to bed ( She snuck art supplies into bed).
She often will hoard candy/Fiber 1 bars into her room or to school with her. She prefers to graze on carbs all day rather than eat a meal.
She bosses her sister around, trys to make her like everything she likes. She has been this way since I met her (when she was 7 1/2). She is very manipulative.
I am pretty on top of her behaviour and call it out, and she doesn't like that.
She is currently on Concerta, 36 mg which does absolutely nothing. She is doing poorly in school, can't focus, forgets her homework, etc.
Tonight, when she got home from school we were explaining if she does her work and take her shower she could go on the computer (which she adores), well she had decided she needed her backpack back. Her shrink, mom and dad have decided she can not have a backpack because she hoards and sneaks things to school, which will distract her from focusing on her schoolwork So that led to another meltdown.
She is starting Adderall XR 10mg tomorrow.
Could she have a mild form of autism? is this ODD? She has no idea how to communicate her thoughts, feelings etc? The only thing she can talk about is cats (she likes to act like one), Pokeman, Sonic, etc.
This is not normal behaviour and she is giving me anxiety. I myself suffer from ADD and never behaved like this. Your thoughts are much appreciated. Thanks.
Erin & Rafael