I am so ugh I cant' curse in here I cant' find the right words...........frustrated?? As many of you know, boyfriend's oldest daughter likes to let's just say take things from time to time. Ok she steals, there i said it!! So, we've had missing perfume, earrings, flip flops, etc. little items that she doens't think anyone will notice. Yet I notice EVERYTHING!!! Than last week boyfriend's $700 from briefcase for rest. was missing suddenly. Ok we never came to conclusion who did that. They checked her room at home and her stuff nothing was found. I don't think she'd take that amt. yet who knows. Ok so I'm going to buy a lock for our bedroom door this weekend. Yet we drop his daughter off at our place and than we go pick up 3 little one's at school together. So, she's alone for at least a half hour here. So, boyfriend buys me candy Cadbury bars........LOL their my thing. He'll pick up 2 or 3 at a time I stash them in my closet and their always there. It makes me happy. As many of you know in a house with kids, nothing is ever truly Yours in the refrigerator. so, lately we have gotten into the habit of hiding food in our room. Pyscho I know, yet we do movie night him and I and we have no snacks because kids eat everything. This makes us very sad. So, we stash sun chips, candy, etc. I go in my closet last night and I can tell stuff has been moved. Now granted my closet isn't the neatest. I'm great with everything else yet my stuff is almost always a mess. Guess what's missing yup my choc. bars!! I can't even tell you how enraged i became over a choc. bar. Like totally pyscho! I went to my easy child and said did you take my choc bar and go into our bedroom and our closet?? She said no i totally beleive her. She'd anti up right away. So, it was his daughter yet again. She took herself into OUR bedroom, into our closet where my personal stuff is and put her paws on my stuff and had the nerve to take it. I'm glad i wont' see them till Monday because by then i'll calm down. I am so so done with her stealing. I truly am. I love her i will not lie. Yet I'm freaking out. I called boyfriend this morning on his way to work and i said ok i'm done with her stealing our stuff. i really am. I said this time around i want to sit with you when you speak to her. Obviously he's not bringing message home that she is to respect ppl's stuff and it is stealing what she is doing. I'm very very mad at her. I have to keep my self in check a little though this is his daughter. he's pretty good doesn't get protective over her because he knows i'm totally right. ok sorry long i'm just totally fuming right now. I want to be a child go to her house and take stuff out of her bedroom and see how she likes it. See how immature i can be??