My loco sister is going in for surgery in two weeks. Without the surgery, she will likely end up paralyzed. With the surgery there is a 50/50 chance. It's surgery on her cervical spine. And then in another month or so, she has to have lumbar spinal surgery as well. Within the last couple of weeks, she has cut herself off from everyone in our family except my brother. I called her, reached out to her, offered my help, told her she's in my prayers, offered the handicap equipment and asked her to please call me back. What I received instead was a text that said, "Im all set". She's all set?? Wtf am I supposed to do with that?? I get it's a very scary and overwhelming situation. She's traveling 3000 miles away for the surgery and my sisters and I are all kind of freaked out but she's not talking to us. What would you do? Thank you.