My difficult child now has a para-professional who follows him around all day. This is the third week it's been going on and I just found out about it on Monday. The school thinks difficult child is violent and needs to be watched. Get this.....he has never, ever, been in a fist fight at school (or anywhere). I'm just at my wits end with this school and I don't know what to say. difficult child doesn't seem to care, but he doesn't care about much, period. Should I just let it go and quit beating myself up over all this stuff all the time? I think I need stronger antidepressants for myself. It may be the only way I'm going to get him through school... WHY is this sooooooo hard?????