Anyone who has read my previous posts know I said we have not had an issue with X acting out at school, only at home. All that changed yesterday. We received a call from the school letting us know we need to come in right away to deal with an issue with X. They would not really elaborate other than to say it involved her and some of the boys from her class and a student from another school. We get there and find out she has been using other kids to cyber bully another girl. X does not have access to any technology because she can't be trusted to not go on inappropriate sites, even with parental controls. She was telling the boys in her class that this girl who is also 12 sucks cock and will have sex with any boy and has done it many times. She proceeded to give all the boys this girls number to start texting and harassing her. Well the boys told their friends, who told their friends and now it is everywhere and this poor kids reputation is ruined at the hands of our daughter. This childs parents now want to involve the police. They have every right to. Her parents found out when one of the mothers co workers came to her to tell her her son had heard about what her daughter does and the parent was concerned. This family lives in a different town than us. This is the type of bullying and rumours young kids commit suicide over!! X shows no remorse, she never does. There is always a reason why she did it in her mind. For this she said the girl said something to a boy X likes. Are we terrible parents for WANTING the police involved?? We don't know what else to do. Nothing works. Again from my previous posts X has ODD and Histrionic Personality Disorder. She takes medications, she sees a therapist. Nothing works. We have tried tough love, we have tried rewards for good behavior. She is heading down a very destructive path at the age of 12. absolutely buy crazy. Her principal told us yesterday she is extremely concerned with the road she is on with her constant need for drama and attention at any cost. We would like to call the police ourselves. Maybe this is what she needs to be scared straight... Any thoughts?