in a class or school with-a violent difficult child what would be your expectations? difficult child's recent move out of another classroom was based more on a concern for others safety and not on what was best for him. i know he needs a smaller class with-less sensory distractions and i thought that was the reason for the move but know i found out it is cuz of his throwing things and the fact that his classmates are scared of him. would you want your child in a classroom/school with-a child that could be a potential threat? would you be as warrior mom for your easy child child as we are for our difficult children? i feel so torn cuz the guilt that my son has hurt others and caused so much disruption. some of these parents are/were my friends but they are pissed at me not the school about difficult child being in school. my child is now labeled the trouble maker and even though i saw some kids hitting each other and acting up in the lunch line yesterday during farm day he is still the violent one. sorry but my frustration level and guilt level are so high right now. do i have the right to force those other kids/staff to deal with-my difficult child? is this the right thing to do or should i look into homeschooling to keep everyone safe? it no!!!!! they are not handling him in the right way. they do not descalate him and they keep changing his learning enviroment. he has the right to be there in school with-his friends and twin sister. this just sucks!!