After being back in school after getting difficult child 80 day expelled for fighting over turned and an IEP she curses at 2 teachers 3 times. she has failed the 1st quarter of school, they are going to put her in alternative school for 20days 1 day suspended which is today. I tell her not to go anywhere. Now mind you last week on friday we have a court date her lawer gets her another court date to try and get the charges reduced. on the court papers it says have full school attendance, no contact with victim and have good behavior in home, school, and the community. she is supposedto start alertnate school tomorrow. I have no idea where she is. Tell me last night i'm not going end of story. I go to work she is gone. I havent seen her since this am. She is usually home by 9pm. When she is aloud out. I am so tired of her calling the shots sort of speak. I am at the end of my rope. Do I go to the police station with the letter from the court hearing. Every time we call the cops when we cant find her the dispatcher says what do you want us to do.. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRr.. She doesnt think that rules apply to her. She does what she wants, when she wants. She will manupulate anything to meet her wants.. This ODD things Stinks!! Right now I want her locked up. I feel like screaming. I have missed so much work because of going up to school, court dates, they are very understanding. Oh and if she is out passed curfew I can go to jail.. So do i report her to the cops before they pick her up somewhere. We try and not **** her off sort of speak she becomes so violent and mouthy I just want to put a bar of soap in her mouth. ok my vent is over for now thanks for listening..