DDD
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GFGmom evidently has decided to derail my efforts to get difficult child's diability reinstated. I am SO sick of her self-serving motivations that I can't see straight!Yep.........this is a major whine plus a request for support (dance, pray, do beads).The meeting is Wednesday to protest difficult child's disability interruption. Today I find out that GFGmom has been going behind my back to convince difficult child to do it "her way" AGAIN. Fortunately I had a contact call me today "off the record' and tell me that GFGmom has taken difficult child to the apartment complex that has "supports" and has decided he prefers the more immediate access to the free apartment. Evidently she is also trying (or may be succeeding?) in convincing difficult child to keep her on as his financial advisor and move into the "iffy" apartment complex that is free. Yep, "free" is the key word. She will have him out of her house, will use his food stamps and be glad that there is no rent for him. Further she has gotten him a Pell grant to take classes at the local community college. Yikes. That means she gets hold of more money from him.I'm sick. I'm smoking again. I absolutely know that she is following the money in lieu of letting him try to get a life of his own. It is a terrible thing to detest your own biokid. Poor difficult child has one chance. It is my way. It will take a little whle but he can have supports, a possible job and independence but he has to work with me instead of his GFGmom. I'm just sick. Please send what support you can that I prevail with the disability people. His future depends on it. DDD