OK- thanks! Actually, the only rights grandparents have here are for visitation- my mother wasn't too happy when I told her that- I think she thought I had to tell her everything going on in my and difficult child's lives and let her have input on how he's raised. I also told her that it didn't mean I had to get difficult child to her, it meant she was allowed to come and visit him. Which she refuses to do so her threat of causing me problems with GAL because I was interfering with her rights went capoot. She must not have figured out yet that she'd have more of a case going after me on the law that I have to take care of her.