difficult child hasnt spoken to me in a while coz i keep asking the state to get her proper pysch help.. difficult child has no insight to her mental health status so she is annoyed that i keep asking she see professionals. Well.. i received a text msg last week from my 18yr difficult child telling me she is 7 weeks preggers. im gonna be a grandma at 35yrs old. i have mixed emotions. im worried and happy. i texted difficult child congrats.. what else was i suppose to say? my difficult child is mentally a 12yr old. she is in foster care (i placed her there voluntarily) she plans on moving in with the father of the babies family next month (which then removes her from states care) she asked if i would go into the labor room with her, of course i will be there to support her. im just concerned if she will be able to look after the child once its born. any of you in a a similiar situation with a difficult child whos preggers or had a baby and the difficult child is definately not ready to be a mom?