JJJ
Active Member
When we last left our heroine, she had just been suspended for the remainder of the school year for getting it on with a boy in the middle of class. While she 'accepted the consequences' she has not accepted that what she did was inappropriate AT ALL.
We tried to address this in family therapy today. It was like talking to a brick wall. She stated that the school is too strict and that it shouldn't be against the rules to do that in class. When it was pointed out that the other children in the class watched her do this every time, she was totally lost. Finally we got it, she knew they were watching, she didn't understand why therapist and I thought that was a problem.
therapist tried to get her to understand that getting in on with one boy in front of others could lead to gang rape. Again, no comprehension that turning it into a group activity would be bad. I told therapist that the saddest thing was that it wouldn't be rape, she'd probably think it was great.
So I'm thinking we should change her vocational goal to stripper as it would combine her personal goals of dancing and sexual performances.
This child exhausts me.
We tried to address this in family therapy today. It was like talking to a brick wall. She stated that the school is too strict and that it shouldn't be against the rules to do that in class. When it was pointed out that the other children in the class watched her do this every time, she was totally lost. Finally we got it, she knew they were watching, she didn't understand why therapist and I thought that was a problem.
therapist tried to get her to understand that getting in on with one boy in front of others could lead to gang rape. Again, no comprehension that turning it into a group activity would be bad. I told therapist that the saddest thing was that it wouldn't be rape, she'd probably think it was great.
So I'm thinking we should change her vocational goal to stripper as it would combine her personal goals of dancing and sexual performances.
This child exhausts me.