my name is meghan and im a divorced mother to a adhd/odd non-diagnosed 4yo girl who is engaged to be married 9-09. we are currently visiting a family counselor for our issues but feel we need more. daughter has recently gotten worse in her defiant and argumentative behavior and is aggressive and at times ignores my fiance who is soon to be her stepfather. and he is so hurt about that. as well he should be her bio-father seems to be in total denial regarding her issues/problems. she does go to a developmentally delayed preschool mon-thurs 8-1030 but needs more help. im losing my alleged mind!!