Short history......divorced ex in Jan 2011 after 40 years. Remarried at age 62, Oct 2012. Adult daughter (45) has barely spoken since. She lives out of state, is fully aware of WHY of divorce (initiated by me, but caused by her father). Has yet to even SPEAK name of new husband, let alone meet him. I continue to be devastated over it all. She has all four of my grandchildren, very little contact with any of them. Every time I get to talk to any of them I cry for three hours. HOW can I move on? Daughter and I had a wonderful relationship and spoke nearly three times a day. We went MONTHS with no contact, now I'm lucky if it's once a month. Holidays, of course, are terribly difficult. If she sends a gift, there's one for me, but no mention of new husband. Christmas card is addressed to only me. My heart hurts and it's not getting any better.