I'm so glad I just found this site. I've been trying to find local support groups to no avail. My son has always had behavior issues. My mother and grandmother would always step in to save the day. I belive this is why I am where I am today with my son. We (my husband and I, his step father) put him out around 19. He would not work, didn't want to go to school, just party and sleep all day and night, while getting money from my mom. Well once he was out, my mother paid all of his expenses, I monetarily cut him off. Fast forward, he's now about to be 23, he has been in jail I think 6 times this year, he just got out again yesterday. He lived with my mother and made her life a living hell, when she called the police last week because he wouldn't give her, her car keys it was found he had a warrant and needles to say ended up in jail, thus getting out yesterday. Now he has no home, no car (my mother did a voluntary repo on the 6th car she's bought him) because he wouldn't help her pay for them. Now he's constatly calling me, texting his sister for rides, money etc. (His sister is a freshman in college but work when on breaks. ) I am always either mad, sad, worried or just feeling guilty about the whole situation. I can't seem to get him to understand his problems aren't my problems. He's got my house so stressed out I literally come to work and just cry. Any advise would be greatly appreciated, I can't take much more. Oh and to top it off he won't go anywhere without his boyfriend, and he's homeless too.