husband and I are meeting with the p-doctor for the first time today. She wants to meet with us first and will then evaluate Missy at another visit. I need some good vibes coming from all of you warrior moms! I need to get my message across to the p-doctor without her thinking that I am coming on too strongly about what I want, but I also don't want her to think that I have no clue either. I would rather her be impressed that I've done my homework, rather than her get annoyed. You know how some docs get annoyed by know-it-all patients? I've had a snotty, way-too-wet-behind-the-ears primary doctor that I wanted to smack because he was too arrogant and thought he knew my body better than I did (long story, but it had to do with a sinus infection that he said I didn't have, but I've been dealing with them forever, so I know when I have one and when I don't). Obviously, I never went back, but I've encountered other docs with an "inflated-self" disorder and hope this one isn't. Anyway, please send good thoughts and vibes. Thanks!