Yes, today is the big day. It's hard to believe they are now 14 since difficult child 1 acts more like 9 going on 10 and difficult child 2 acts more like 30 going on 10. difficult child 1 is making progress and maturing where difficult child 2 was very mature for his age but is reverting to old fashioned stomping, grumpy temper tantrums when he doesn't get his way. Will they BOTH ever grow up? Is there any hope? It's going to be a very busy day with lunch birthday party with one sister and then afternoon party with the other sister (since they won't put their differences aside for 1 day) and then play rehearsal tonight. It's going to be a very LONG day. Calgon, take me away!!!