PatriotsGirl
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She is a couple of years older than M, has two children (by two different ex-boyfriends) and married a man in the army. They moved from Massachusetts to North Carolina. She had her issues growing up - not as bad as M, but still would be considered a difficult child. We thought she grew up and was doing well at the base.
She had been out of contact with her mom, though, and finally contacted her last week. Turns out her husband was kicked out of the army (didn't say why), both of her children were taken away by DFCS (she claims because she smoked pot - we call BS on that one. She is skinnier than M was when M went to jail. We had our suspicions that she was doing meth.). Her son was picked up by his biological father who he has had zero contact with since being a baby - he has full custody now. Her daughter is in the fister care system being taken care of by an old woman that takes her toys and tells her the devil is coming up from the ground to get her. AND she is now pregnant by the third man - her husband.
It is all a mess. She was also messed with by my mother's husband. Coincidence? I don't think so.
And my "mother". You would think at the very least would be apologetic for bringing this monster into our lives. Instead she deflects and says my daughter has more issues than "that". I want to punch the woman in the face. She needs to address her own issues - like why she is drawn to perverted men. Even my biological father. He never touched us, but they would be in their bedroom playing porno movies very loud and a lot of them were incestuous.
And my daughter is trying to teach me about forgiveness while she is learning herself. She tells me that she herself has sinned. That she has hurt people, robbed people and done other bad things. That if she wants to be forgiven, that she has to forgive him for his sins. I am not there. I don't understand HOW anyone could forgive such a monster. And honor thy parents? HOW can I honor a mother that I have ZERO respect for? If any Christians could chime in on that one, I would really appreciate it. I am trying to learn but have so far to go...
So if you could, please say a prayer, rattle a bone or anything for my neice...I told my sister that if she is using what I think she is using, she is going to need some help...it is a long, bad road...
She had been out of contact with her mom, though, and finally contacted her last week. Turns out her husband was kicked out of the army (didn't say why), both of her children were taken away by DFCS (she claims because she smoked pot - we call BS on that one. She is skinnier than M was when M went to jail. We had our suspicions that she was doing meth.). Her son was picked up by his biological father who he has had zero contact with since being a baby - he has full custody now. Her daughter is in the fister care system being taken care of by an old woman that takes her toys and tells her the devil is coming up from the ground to get her. AND she is now pregnant by the third man - her husband.
It is all a mess. She was also messed with by my mother's husband. Coincidence? I don't think so.
And my "mother". You would think at the very least would be apologetic for bringing this monster into our lives. Instead she deflects and says my daughter has more issues than "that". I want to punch the woman in the face. She needs to address her own issues - like why she is drawn to perverted men. Even my biological father. He never touched us, but they would be in their bedroom playing porno movies very loud and a lot of them were incestuous.
And my daughter is trying to teach me about forgiveness while she is learning herself. She tells me that she herself has sinned. That she has hurt people, robbed people and done other bad things. That if she wants to be forgiven, that she has to forgive him for his sins. I am not there. I don't understand HOW anyone could forgive such a monster. And honor thy parents? HOW can I honor a mother that I have ZERO respect for? If any Christians could chime in on that one, I would really appreciate it. I am trying to learn but have so far to go...
So if you could, please say a prayer, rattle a bone or anything for my neice...I told my sister that if she is using what I think she is using, she is going to need some help...it is a long, bad road...