I am scheduled to head back to the farm today leaving Ferb at the other house alone for 5 days. Knowing what is happening, or at least part of it, is indeed making me ill. If I chose to stay here for a few extra days, Mrs. W would likely stay away. I am also somewhat concerned that the police will come to question Ferb. I know they are bound to be digging around into Mrs. W's "activities" and Ferb is involved. SO wants to demand that Ferb not have anyone over while I am gone. He believes Ferb will listen to him over me. He wants to threaten to not pay the college tuition if he disobeys. Ferb leaves for college on Aug 19. The only day I absolutely must be at the farm is Aug 17. The other days I have a choice. What do you think I should do? Stay here to keep the wolf at bay? Go home to the farm where I can reset my poor tired brain? Split the difference? I know I won't be going today as I didn't sleep much last night. Thank you so very much friends for being here to discuss this horrible situation. You guys are such an incredible gift.