Tomorrow is the arbitration hearing to see if difficult child will get the extra services we are hoping to get him. It involves wrap around services as well as respite. husband has no sick days left so he can't come with me. Fortunately my t-doctor is going to be there in support. It sounds like I will go into this meeting and a bunch of people will be there asking questions. I also get a chance to speak-think I'll be making some notes tonight so I don't forget what I want to say. Then I get to go wait in the hall and they vote. From the way it sounds I will find out tomorrow. Last week my therapist told me the director of her place has gone to several of the meetings and come away frustrated with the questions they ask the parents. The meeting is at 3:25 tomorrow. Wish me luck!