Am I nuts? DEX is out of jail. Between each of our schedules, he will not have time till next week or possibly even next weekend to see Tink. The thing is, she knows that he is out. She got the mail today (yesterday's mail because we were too lazy to get it yesterday) and the letter she sent to him in jail was returned. She was SO upset, she thought he rejected it. I checked online to find out that he had been released, and that is why the letter was returned. It was because he was not there. SO, in order to assure her that he was not rejecting her, I pretty much had to let her know that he was out. Which brought us to my phone call with him, in which he stated that unless he spent time with her tomorrow during the day, he would not be able to see her till next week. Then he asked if he could just spend a few hours with her tonight. That was at, like, 7. A few hours? Sure, maybe if you had called at 2! SOOOOOOO I went against my better judgment and told him that he could get her tonight, keep her for the night, and spend the day with her. I decided that she could miss a day of school. I rationalized this as being OK because she has had several long crying spells because she misses him so much. Am I nuts?