My son is going to be 6 in a few weeks. He has adhd...we are still trying to find something that works...the dr is also throwing around the possibiltiy of ODD. He is completely out of control...the tantrums and screaming and throwing things when things don't go exactly the way he wants is almost to much for me. I know he does not like the behavior he is doing becuase after a tantrum he will curl up and cry for a good 20 minutes. I am at a loss as to what to do. he is in kindergarten and had 10 referrals this year. there was talk about holding him back on behavoir alone, until they got his testing scores back a couple weeks ago where he scored 2nd grade level on everything but one subject and the subject he scored a 4th grade level. We were just at the dr yesterday and they are upping his medicine for the next month to try to get him through the rest of the school year since he can only be on ritalin till he turns 6 and then we can try some other things... My son has also had a lot of changes in the last couple of months his dad got divorced and got a new girlfriend and moved and now he doesn't get to see the step mom or his step brother and sister like he used to...but his dads new girlfriend also has 2 kids that have been thrown into his life... I just don't know what i should do. I feel so bad for him having to deal with all of this . every night i go to bed crying wondering what i could do differently about what he is dealing with... I know i can't do anything about his dads behavoir but as farr his adhd and possible odd i feel like i should be able to do more then I am...