my daughter just recently told me she was diagnosed with Borderline (BPD). In a way it's a relief to know there is a reason for her anger toward me. I kept trying to figure out what horrible thing I did to make her so hateful toward me. She lives in another state. I am overwhelmed by the thought of how much pain she has been in. I don't know how to help her. Is there someone suffering from this who can tell me how I can support her without making things worse?