I am a parent of two boys, one 16 who is an angel, respectful, nice polite and a 14 yr old terror. I am married for 18 years but my 14 yr old is straining our marriage. He is ODD and ADD. He has been on Zoloft and Concerta but is now just trying Intuniv and possibly Respridal which we have not started yet. He is disrespectful, nasty, mean, lies and doesn't care about anything including school. I am at my wits end with him. We have done counseling which he never speaks at and refuses to go. We tend to ignore our 16 yr old as he is so quiet and easy which makes it harder for us along with everything else the guilt of that. We just don't know what to do anymore with him. Stressed and angry mom here.