Careful what you ask, you might get an answer you don't like......... I asked Katie what made her suddenly *put her foot up his tush*. I was just curious, and told her so. She didn't have to tell me as really it's none of my business. He's in the middle of a disability claim. Yup. There it is. What for? They're evaluating him for mental retardation and a bad back. When she was describing the stuff about the test results ect.......it wasn't just for the therapist it was for disability. They're going to send him to see some doctor to evaluation him, for everything.....part of it is the mental disorder too as she suspects he has a "mood disorder". Seems she's sick of doing everything all by herself, she wants him to work, if he can't work she wants him bringing in money somehow because it makes her feel guilty using Alex's money to live on. She's sick of dealing with his moods, whims whatever. She stated she thinks it's possible Alex got his mental retardation from his dad. Uh, no sweetheart he got it from you "dropping him on his head" repeatedly as an infant. The same place he got the cp (he's not officially diagnosed with that because heaven forbid she take him to a neuro). Do I buy all this? Well, I probably would have fallen for it totally. EXCEPT when I went with her to sign the paperwork for Alex the cw revealed that while they were in Dayon she'd started a claim for M. Oh........and toppers? Katie is determined to find the *reason* behind her "migraines" and "severe" neck and shoulder pain that goes clear down to her hand. First I've ever heard of anything other than the migraines and her pretend seizures. She's on her 3rd doctor here for this. How much you wanna bet she's filed for disability too? Just shaking my head here. I think this has been the plan at least since they got here, if not before. Gimme a break. I'm trying hard to believe otherwise, but it's just not working. If these two get disability then the system is broken beyond repair and ought to be chucked. Because this "man" has been working on and off his entire adult life, he quits his jobs because he's lazy, not because he's disabled. ugh Just the thought makes me wanna pound my head on my desk.