Still having a problem with hygiene with my SS. I have told everyone here before how he gets urine and feces all over the toilet seat and under the toilet seat. husband and I told him that he would have to clean it from now on before we take him home and for a little while that worked. He cleaned it, not very well mind you, but he cleaned it. So we have gotten lax about checking it before we take him home on Sundays. Well yesterday we had to take him home early and we were in a rush. husband asked him if there was feces on or under the toilet seat and he said, "no because I haven't had a bowel movement this weekend at all." Well I just went upstairs to do some cleaning and lo and behold, I go in the bathroom that SS uses and there is feces all over the back of the toilet seat, and under the toilet seat as well and the toilet had feces in it because he didn't flush it. Disgusting and I am furious! I just got done cleaning up the mess. This boy is 13 years old, there is no excuse for getting urine and feces all over the toilet in the first place, and absolutely no excuse for not cleaning it up!! And definitely no excuse for lying and saying he didn't poop all weekend. He also refused to shower all weekend. I am so sick of having to deal with this every other weekend. It's awful not to be able to relax and feel comfortable in my own home.