I need some suggestions for getting help for my 14 year old who has adhd, low self esteem, depression, and conduct disorder/oppositional defiant disorder. He needs some kind of help from the school to teach him skills! I don't know what to suggest....social skills training, anger anger management skills, problem solving skills, and what? Who should be responsible for making sure it gets done? Who should provide these skills? Please help me by offering any suggestions. I have to go to a ARD meeting to propose changes for his behavior plan and I am at a loss.