She came by with a male co-worker, caught difficult child I totally off guard and she got on him about the "gang like" stuff all over his room and proceeded to find to homemade "pipes" in his room. She asked him what the test would say when it came back, he said he was gonna fail it. She left after threatening him and telling him to get his act together or he'll be put back on house arrest again (sure punish me!). Within 15 minutes of her leaving he left and came back an hour later reaking of pot. Then he brough his newest girlfriend over and tried to sneak her in his bedroom, this is his way of not breaking curfew I guess. After I drove her home, he gave me an attitude, and if I didn't know better I would say they were both high. Then yesterday he gets up and leaves, calls my Dad for a ride around 3PM, my dad drives out of his way to pick him up, then my son blows him off. He then comes home high and drunk at 12:15 at night claiming his girlfriend needs to stay at out house because her Mom threw her out. I offer to drive her to a friends, and he makes up excuses, then I say she can stay on the couch by me and he says forget it and they both leave (his curfew is 9PM mind you - per probation) He never came home, and I finally found out he spent the night at a friends. This morning the bus for boot camp came and he wasn't here, so now he's kicked out of that and they will be calling PO Monday, UGH!