Just wondering if anyone else has ideas that something during pregnancy or childbirth may have contributed to their difficult child's issues. When I was preggo with- difficult child I had edema at the end, the pregnancy rash and I was miserable pretty much from month 3 on. During labor (day after due date) they broke my water and not even a drop came out. I heard whispers but no one said anything was necessarily wrong. On pitocin, her heart rate dropped and after 16 hours of labor I was rushed to OR for c-sect. I've asked my new gyne, peds, and any other specialist if those issues may have contributed to her being "her". My instinct says there's a link. Anyone else think like that?