My son turned 19 yesterday. We had a party for him at my house. He is currently still living with his 19 year old girlfriend. This has lasted about a month. Still waiting to see if they run out of money and can't do this since I know he is still smoking pot. I feel like it is out of my hands unless he comes home. He showed up with eyes looking off. Not red. He always keeps a supply of Visine, but swollen. I thought when he hugged me he smelled like it. Hickeys on either side of his neck. OMG, he was raised better. Hard to know and not say anything. Occasionally I check his twitter which he doesn't know I see. They both work at Mcdonald's and are attending community college. He tweets, " Get up, go to work. Work a long ass time. Come home. Think about what happened at work. Get up do it all over." I thought that was funny. Welcome to my world. To make matters worse, they are going to a concert tonight. John Butler concert about 4 hours away. I told my husband it would be the perfect opportunity for him to get in trouble for the first time.