So me and hubby were thinking about putting the boys in the same room with either twin beds, or bunk beds. Then making the second room into a play room. But we don't know if it's a good idea since difficult child 1 seems to resent his younger brother. Yet difficult child 2 adores his older brother and hates to sleep in a room by himself. Seems more like a catch 22 to me... ~sigh~ Ideas? Thoughts? Also, we're having a problem with difficult child 1 adjusting to being back home. He misses his grandma, and that's all he wants. He even offered for her to come with us on the airplane before we left. He's doing well in school, but he's more defiant here at the house, and he doesn't want to work with his therapist at school. Ideas? Comments? I did try to get him to webcam with grandma the other day, and he refused. Course I'm tired today and not thinking all that well, and well... second opinions always help.