Feeling very sad and tired. My daughter had a relapse on both her drug use and her eating disorder. Since we are drug testing, she used alcohol this time which is not her drug of choice. She was brought home to us by her friend. She was completely intoxicated. I'm trying hard to keep it in perspective. She told me she does not want to be like this anymore.How much oversight should I have with her in our home? We will go back to outpatient treatment as soon as possible, but I took her phone, car and all other privileges. I've been told not to babysit her but I feel I need to have some oversight now.