Hi again - In my daughter's absence I have been researching Borderline (BPD). Yes, I know it is risky to self-diagnose, but this has been top of my list for years. However, I always got the "can't diagnosis personality disorders under 18" line at her various treatment places. Anyway - we have another appointment lined up next week, and despite her currently being gone she does say that she will go to that. Assuming she follows through, and now she's 18, hopefully we'll get an actual diagnosis instead of the run-around we've been dealing with for years. She fits almost every single symptom with co-morbidity of depression and anxiety. Anyway - maybe I'm barking up the wrong tree, but in potential preparation (and hope) I was wondering if anyone can point me to good resources for Borderline (BPD) - mainly how to parent effectively, and the best treatment places etc. Thank you.