How do you do this? He likes rewards, but when he is in his "I don't care about anything" mood, loss of priviledge works best. How do you set up a plan where you want it to be positive, but if he doesn't feel like it he will tell you he doesn't care. Can you switch and say if you do not do this you will not get a reward plus loss of privilege? that seems like a double wammy. I know that loss of privileges work best with him. He will try, and often win with husband to sweet talk his way back to getting what he wants.