Well, My son is 5 years old and he started kindergarted last week. I got a call from his teacher yesterday saying that was hitting kids, blowing in their hair and when asked to stop refused. He was caught lying and pulling a girls hair. The same day I got the call he pushed his bestfriend down at daycare after school. He was diagnosed with ODD last year and I had him in counseling for it. He discontinued the services because I was unable to get the time off work and I don't have anyone who will help me. His dad and I are divorced and his dad lives in a different state which is extrememly difficult. I have a boyfriend who lives with me. We have a baby together, but I have decided to put my happiness aside and chose not to have a relationship at this time. Its been hard and difficult and I don't know what to do anymore. My son is a great kid and I love him so much. I guess I'm not sure what how to address the issue at school. I have talked with his teacher and explained his disorder and they are going to work with me on this issue. I am rearranging my life to accomadate his disorder and its depressing me as well. I cry, I yell, I scream, its very difficult. I need support and feedback on how to deal with this issue.