So today i searched my difficult child's room, i felt terrible, but i have a feeling shes using drugs. I found a massive ammount of pot, and various perscription pills that she is NOT perscribed. This alarms me, because the drugs are probably just contributing to her problems. I was very upset and plan to confront her. What alarms me the most, is this: i also found condoms. I dont know how many of you have read my earlier thread, but my daughter was raped a little over a year ago, and is just coming to terms with it now, and dealing with all the traumatic flashbacks that comes with PTSD. She has a serious loving boyfriend, so if she did not have the PTSD tagged onto the long list of diagnosis, i would not be devastated.. however I cant help but think that sex is not a good idea right now given her past. Or, it may be a wonderfull thing that she feels comfortable enough with her boyfriend to be so intimate. any advice? should i let her know i found them?