My difficult child was sentenced today. He has been in the county jail for two and a half months. I have been married to my husband for 5 years. My difficult child has stolen from him and threatened him before. My difficult child,s dad is deceased. My husband does not have any children and has served in the marines, so he is rather strict. My difficult child was arrested for spousal abuse and drugs. My difficult child will be out on probation in three and a half months. He will be on 5 years probation, he has to go to counseling for 52 weeks and will have random drug tests. When he is released, he has no money and no place to go. I have his clothes and his Harley. My husband says he will not allow him in our home and if I can't deal with this we can go our separate ways. My husband is really good to me and my grandchildren. I also have a daughter who is very supportive. My husband has been very generous with both my son and daughter but says he feels like he has been used. I feel like I am going to be forced to choose between my husband and my difficult child when he is released from jail. I am 63 and retired. My difficult child is 42. Does anyone have any advise for me. I am so upset.