i TALKED TO MY PARENTS LASTNIGHT, AND MY MOM TOLD ME THAT difficult child AND FAMILY HAVE BEEN OVER TO THEIR HOUSE EACH DAY TELLING HER ABOUT THEIR WOES. THE BABY ALSO HAD A DOCTORS appointment, HE IS DOING WELL. MY PARENTS HAVE CAME TO THE SAME CONCLUSION AS MY husband AND I IN HOW TO HANDLE THIS.
NOW THE PLANS ARE FOR HIM TO QUIT HIS JOBS ( I THINK HE HAS ALREADY DONE THAT, AND PROBABLY BY BEING LET GO), AND HER NEW HAIR CUT JOB SHE WONT START. HIS WIFE WAS OFFERED A CHANCE BY HER LONG LOST DAD TO MOVE TO CALIF. AND START OVER. TO ME THIS IS NOT A PROBLEM OTHER THAN, ANOTHER ONE WILL BE PICKING HIM UP BEFORE HE HITS ROCK BOTTOM, MAY NOT LEARN AGAIN.
THE WORSE PART WHICH REALLY HAS WENT BEYOND WHAT I EXPECTED IS THAT THEY CAME AND REPOSSESSED HIS CAR LAST EVE. HE HAD ANOTHER CAR BUT I THINK IT WAS PAY BY WEEK, AND HE RETURNED THAT (ESP IF THEY ARE GOING OUT TO CALIF). ORIGINALLY THE CO. WANTED TO SEE WHAT THE CAR WAS WORTH NOW, ADN IF NOT ENOUGH TO PAY OUT IN LAWYERS FEE, THEN THERE WOULD BE OTHER DECISIONS MADE, THIS IS WHAT MY HUSBAND WA TOLD. SO husband GAVE THE GUY DIRECTIONS TO difficult child PLACE, OF COURSE WE ALL THINK HE IS AT WORK, AND HIS WIFE ALONE, OH NO, HE IS HOME. AT FIRST THEY ARE NOT AT HOME, THEN THIS GUYS USES HIS PHONE TO CONTACT US, AND WE YELL THROUGH OURS TO HAVE THEM LISTEN TO WHY HE IS THERE, ADN NO REPLY. FINALLY MY difficult child SENDS HIS WIFE OUTSIDE TO TALK , SHJAKING WHILE MY difficult child IS CUSSING, AND BEATING THE WALLS IN THE HOUSE. THEY HAD TO TAKE THE VEHICLE because difficult child WOULD NOT GIVE THE KEYS TO INSPECT. THE GUY FELT ENDAngered and appauld at what he heard for my son, and that he was not man enough to come out., no excuse but i am happy difficult child didnt come out.
this guy did relay a message from my daughter in law that she has a appointment, no time given and would like me to come and get her today. i told my husband i would go but have my sister in law there for protection. Really I do fear for her, though I dont think my difficult child would hurt her, just controlling. She plays right along with him though.
Jen
NOW THE PLANS ARE FOR HIM TO QUIT HIS JOBS ( I THINK HE HAS ALREADY DONE THAT, AND PROBABLY BY BEING LET GO), AND HER NEW HAIR CUT JOB SHE WONT START. HIS WIFE WAS OFFERED A CHANCE BY HER LONG LOST DAD TO MOVE TO CALIF. AND START OVER. TO ME THIS IS NOT A PROBLEM OTHER THAN, ANOTHER ONE WILL BE PICKING HIM UP BEFORE HE HITS ROCK BOTTOM, MAY NOT LEARN AGAIN.
THE WORSE PART WHICH REALLY HAS WENT BEYOND WHAT I EXPECTED IS THAT THEY CAME AND REPOSSESSED HIS CAR LAST EVE. HE HAD ANOTHER CAR BUT I THINK IT WAS PAY BY WEEK, AND HE RETURNED THAT (ESP IF THEY ARE GOING OUT TO CALIF). ORIGINALLY THE CO. WANTED TO SEE WHAT THE CAR WAS WORTH NOW, ADN IF NOT ENOUGH TO PAY OUT IN LAWYERS FEE, THEN THERE WOULD BE OTHER DECISIONS MADE, THIS IS WHAT MY HUSBAND WA TOLD. SO husband GAVE THE GUY DIRECTIONS TO difficult child PLACE, OF COURSE WE ALL THINK HE IS AT WORK, AND HIS WIFE ALONE, OH NO, HE IS HOME. AT FIRST THEY ARE NOT AT HOME, THEN THIS GUYS USES HIS PHONE TO CONTACT US, AND WE YELL THROUGH OURS TO HAVE THEM LISTEN TO WHY HE IS THERE, ADN NO REPLY. FINALLY MY difficult child SENDS HIS WIFE OUTSIDE TO TALK , SHJAKING WHILE MY difficult child IS CUSSING, AND BEATING THE WALLS IN THE HOUSE. THEY HAD TO TAKE THE VEHICLE because difficult child WOULD NOT GIVE THE KEYS TO INSPECT. THE GUY FELT ENDAngered and appauld at what he heard for my son, and that he was not man enough to come out., no excuse but i am happy difficult child didnt come out.
this guy did relay a message from my daughter in law that she has a appointment, no time given and would like me to come and get her today. i told my husband i would go but have my sister in law there for protection. Really I do fear for her, though I dont think my difficult child would hurt her, just controlling. She plays right along with him though.
Jen
