i have not posted in awhile. Things with my son seemed to be getting a little more on track. He stuck with a stage management job, though it was not really his thing. He is still performing at Chinese Lion Dancing shows and he has a small part in an upcoming show. The stage manager job was the only thing that paid, though not much unfortunately. He is working on an independent film. We are in the process of moving out of our house and renting a small place and needed him to go through his stuff and help us move some things. Do you think he can be bothered to help? No. "I am depressed". "I don't feel well". He is a great one to help others but never us. Why? Is this normal? He is a bit of a pack rat so getting rid of stuff is a stressor for him. So he avoids. His modus operandi. Just needed to complain! Thanks for listening.