Apparently he was too slow at performing one of the tasks that he had to do. He said that he was told by someone else that he was doing fine and he is really upset about it. Now he is talking about joining the military. I use to pray that he would not choose to join but all things considered I am all for it now. I’m trying not to make a mountain out of a mole hill, he has a little bit of money in the bank still but for some reason (the fact that I am codependent) I automatically panic when these obstacles arise and they aren’t even my obstacles.