Many steps to an eviction. Too long to go into. They were served papers posted on the door towards the end of Dec. In three languages. They have to write a letter to the court and our attorney describing in detail why they think they have a right to be there within five business days.
Due to the fact that they committed a crime not too long ago and are out on bail, our attorney thinks there is a decent chance they won’t go forward.
We ALL think they are experts at this and actually normally would and appeal it too. But he says it’s been his experience that if they are currently in trouble with the law, they don’t like to go anywhere near a court house.
HOA president continues to express his anxiety.
Sadly they have extra days to illegally stay in the unit and write out such a letter due to the holidays.
Oddly, since they never had a key…if they leave and no one knows about it…the place will remain unlocked. So, measures will be taken to be alert…as best as we can.
Daughter continues to show no remorse. Is arguing with friend who tried to help her and she is staying with. But friend might be trying to take advantage of her a little. ??? Too much complication and drama.
Daughter traditionally gets extra moody and tends toward depression at the holidays. We’ve asked her repeatedly if she doesn’t want to see a therapist regularly, for the love of God please see one in the Fall amd continue through the holidays. Always a big NO.
Instead, fir decades, she is mean, sarcastic, cruel , moody and hurtful to us especially on Christmas. She is even jealous of the little grands. Toddlers behave more maturely. We have bent over backwards to help her and be kind to her especially at the holidays. We traditionally walk on egg shells. Been going on fir decades. Very difficult and stressful for each individual family member. DECADES.
She sent hubby HORRIBLE texts on this Xmas day. She wasn’t with us. So, she texted in !
However, we ignored them. And guess what?
We had a LOVELY Christmas Day . Everyone was relaxed, happy, kind, joyous … grateful. Omg. The kids super well behaved. And I received incredibly kind and loving texts from good friends. I had moments of sorrow of course, but the amount of peace, love and joy was so tremendous it filled my heart. It’s a big Wow!
Things are moving forward. Good thoughts and prayers very much appreciated.
Thank you all for your support.
Due to the fact that they committed a crime not too long ago and are out on bail, our attorney thinks there is a decent chance they won’t go forward.
We ALL think they are experts at this and actually normally would and appeal it too. But he says it’s been his experience that if they are currently in trouble with the law, they don’t like to go anywhere near a court house.
HOA president continues to express his anxiety.
Sadly they have extra days to illegally stay in the unit and write out such a letter due to the holidays.
Oddly, since they never had a key…if they leave and no one knows about it…the place will remain unlocked. So, measures will be taken to be alert…as best as we can.
Daughter continues to show no remorse. Is arguing with friend who tried to help her and she is staying with. But friend might be trying to take advantage of her a little. ??? Too much complication and drama.
Daughter traditionally gets extra moody and tends toward depression at the holidays. We’ve asked her repeatedly if she doesn’t want to see a therapist regularly, for the love of God please see one in the Fall amd continue through the holidays. Always a big NO.
Instead, fir decades, she is mean, sarcastic, cruel , moody and hurtful to us especially on Christmas. She is even jealous of the little grands. Toddlers behave more maturely. We have bent over backwards to help her and be kind to her especially at the holidays. We traditionally walk on egg shells. Been going on fir decades. Very difficult and stressful for each individual family member. DECADES.
She sent hubby HORRIBLE texts on this Xmas day. She wasn’t with us. So, she texted in !
However, we ignored them. And guess what?
We had a LOVELY Christmas Day . Everyone was relaxed, happy, kind, joyous … grateful. Omg. The kids super well behaved. And I received incredibly kind and loving texts from good friends. I had moments of sorrow of course, but the amount of peace, love and joy was so tremendous it filled my heart. It’s a big Wow!
Things are moving forward. Good thoughts and prayers very much appreciated.
Thank you all for your support.