So with the new year came a new determination that I would once again run my house. I knew it would be a tough couple weeks with the transition, but I am absolutely DETERMINED to be seen by Tink as her mother and not a friend. If I get through these couple weeks, it will be a miracle. She had her biggest breakdown ever yesterday over homework. Later we together realized that it was not about homework at all, but it is about her dad. She misses him so much but is SO angry at him. But she feels guilty about being angry at him, Know what I mean?? SO she has been refusing to talk about it, refusing to write to him, she just pretends it's not happening. Well last night she finally fell apart and was just sobbing uncontrollably for hours. My heart broke into pieces for her. Just not fair. I will keep you updated on the progress. Boy I hope this is worth it.