Hi gang, I haven't posted for a while. I've been busy going to Al-Anon meetings, getting a sponsor, working the steps and trying to do one or more things every day that I want to do. How did I get here after over 5 years of turmoil and contention? YOU. I heard about Al-Anon from you. I stopped feeling so isolated and alone with the help of your gentle, but honest, comments. I learned so many things because you took the time to share. Thank you. I wish you all good things and love you for your steady support. After Thanksgiving husband and I are going on vacation to see his folks. I'll catch up with you soon.