We blocked Kay, but one of her "friends" startled us by calling. We thought something was wrong so we answered to a scolding. She said Kay knows that our other daughter Amy is living with us right now and that this is.proof to her that her adoption makes her "undesirable" (her word). It is up on FB. She posted that she is feeling as if nobody cares about her so she may have to use more drugs or worse. Again this is how it was read to me. And the friend rushed her words. For all I know, Kay put her up to it, but this shattered our month of peace. Of course our other daughter Amy and her kids are are angels and help a lot and say how much they love and appreciate us. It is temporary until Amys house is built. But I am swimming in guilt. Shaking today. Husband is quiet and just shook his head. We blocked this friend but she got her point across before I could disconnect. The shock made my reflexes slow.