Father's Day has been very glum around here. wm was sobbing when I went to visit - he misses his dad. kt is over the top in self destructive antics then bottoms out. She has an appointment with therapist on Wednesday; I'll be checking in with psychiatrist tomorrow. I had to remind the tweedles that this is their first Father's Day without husband & it was appropriate to be sad, angry, etc. However if they wanted to honor dad that they should choose to always do the right thing. husband told kt & wm that almost daily. I reminded both of them that husband wants them to be healthy functioning adults. For the live of me I couldn't come up with one idea for them to honor dad ~ just didn't have it in me. I just told them the above & held them as they cried it out. Thanks for listening.