wakeupcall
Well-Known Member
OMGosh. I'm gonna kill him!!!! Our difficult child is about to get me to the point that I'm gonna pack the car and leave. He's HORRID, HORRID, HORRID!!! Right now I have him in his room indefinitely (that is unless he storms out and I can't physically get him back in there). I just don't know what to do to stop the behavior and I'm soooooo tired of "he's not got medications working yet" excuse till I could throw up! I wish someone would tell me what happens if he treats a boss like this or a teacher or a policeman?? Huh?? Huh?? difficult child is almost twelve and it's time for this behavior to stop. Having suffered this for eleven + years is about my limit. He tells me "Shut up", he terrorizes the dogs, he throws things at me, he slams doors, he mocks every word I say to him, he pretends to ummmm pass gas on me, he sticks out his tongue to me. WHEN does this crap stop? I kid you not, it's not once an hour he does this, it's nonstop. Someone tell me why all this therapy we've had has not made ONE bit of difference in his behavior. Yes, it's less severe (imagine that) than it once was, but he still does something or another ALL the time. I have therapy, I take ADs, I exercise, and I still get to the point where I don't know if I can take this even one more day. Except for you on this board, I don';t have a freakin' friend in the world. difficult child has run them all off. husband is clearly snowed under at work and I refuse to even call him to complain, so I call my daughter. SHE doesn't want to hear it anymore than husband wants to. My daughter lives 2 thousand miles away (can't help) and husband is a one man show in human resources of a plant of over 100 employees. He canNOT take off to babysit difficult child. It's not that it's any ONE thing difficult child does, it's ALL these things day after day and hour after hour....over and over and over. He has me soooooo upset. I already didn't speak to him the entire day yesterday for something akin to the same behavior. Does he care? Nope...!