I have a problem. I am way behind in my property taxes on my mobile home because...well...because I have no income and I am waiting on disability to get approved. I recently got a letter saying that if something wasnt done soon that they would send me to foreclosure. Great. So I went to the bank and tried to get a loan but of course they said I couldnt get one because I have no income. My trailer is paid for but this doesnt matter. So the only thing I could think of was to ask Jamie if he would co-sign for me to get the loan. He said fine because he knows his dad will pay it and the amount is really not that big. As soon as I get my disability I will pay off the loan anyway. Jamie had absolutely no problem with doing this. Well step in his girlfriend. She has a big problem with it. Why we have no idea except she likes to stick her nose in all parts of everyones business. She told him she doesnt want him to do it. In fact, she told him he CANT do it. Hello, what business is it of hers what he does to help us? All he is doing is signing a paper so we can get the money. He isnt going to pay a darn thing. We will. If we died and couldnt pay off the loan my trailer goes to him and he could sell it and pay the loan off. What she doesnt realize is she is really getting herself off on the wrong foot with me...with her future in laws...her future mother in law...the grandmother of her child...and trust me, I have a very long memory! I dont forgive well and I carry long grudges. She wants and expects us there for her baby shower in May. Oh I dont think I will be there if this is the attitude she gives me now! Why would I? I think I will be extremely sick with something catching. In our family we help each other...we always have. Its a one for all and all for one mentality. We pull together when times are tough. We dont just sit by and watch while one of us goes through hard times. When Jamie had a paycheck lost, we sent him money we didnt have to get him through. We didnt think twice. Its what we do in this family. She needs to suck it up. Can you tell I dont like this girl very much right now?