husband is taking care of manster as he's on spring break. After two days I think he's ready to leave us. He's convinced manster has no "disorders" and that I just make excuses for the fact that he is a spoiled rotten brat. Manster has been acting out and testing husband's authority. He calls me hysterically crying that husband is being mean to him. husband is just setting limits and getting more and more frustrated as the day goes on. I am totally backing husband up and telling manster he's in charge and he has to comply with the rules. But of course this is a new routine and you know how well our kids do with that. husband told me "he's done" and doesn't care any more. I can't live by those threats. Maybe husband can't handle difficult child. I can't afford to have manster go to daycare right now that husband isn't working. I don't know what to do. husband stormed out of here angry on his way to an AA meeting. I don't know how to fix this. Does anyone have any ideas to save my marriage or at the least husband's sobriety? This is ugly.