when our kids that rage get their own places? (may be a rhetorical question). I was following the thread about kids, who smash/break/destroy things and I had these mental images of my son's future home -- picturing smashed items, broken doors, etc. Then I thought further to wonder how he might interact with a roommate or significant other during one of his rages. I shudder to think. My husband has repaired much of what our son has broken but it is still obvious there was damage.