Your difficult child has a cell phone and using it past time allowed. Its taken away. difficult child finds it and uses it. Do you... a. Cancel the phone and pay the heft penalty? b. Suspend the phone until difficult child gets it back 'legally'? c. Tell difficult child they can use it until the wee hours of the night as long as they get a job and pay for it? d. Something else? Am I bonkers or is the other person? Or maybe both of us. I said (b) and an advisor said (c). Am I dealing with these kind of issues correctly in the difficult child world? Am I making any sense?